Founder of The deVinery where you can explore the psychology behind great sex and how to play with it on purpose. Retired sex worker, pro domme and somatic sexologist who now writes about sex and teaches the art of Purposeful Adult Playdates in the bedroom. Exploring our turn-ons intentionally not only leads to more pleasure and better relating but is also a way to encounter all layers of ourselves. ArtemisiadeVine.com
The erotic is an art form and traineeships are rare
Private Mentoring: Calling sex workers, pro dominants and others who seek erotic mastery - or should I say mistressy.
Honestly, I would have given my eye teeth for this opportunity!
But to be fair, that is because Navigating the Erotic Psyche is designed to cater to exactly the things I love most, and are simply not available elsewhere. I designed it with younger me in mind. I asked myself, what would have supported me the most in learning the inner workings of the erotic psyche? And, how could I be supported to turn the potent nuances of our bizarre and wonderful internal landscapes into embodied sexual experiences and play?
Sex workers-only spaces are full of generous, savvy, incredibly skilled individuals and I owe so very much to other sex workers for showing me the way when I first started. My deep respect for the complex underground networks of support and peer training and those kind enough to let me into their BDSM scenes to observe. I learned so much from you!
But there was something I wasn't able to get from those spaces, or from the various trainings I took from brilliant and wise sexperts around the world.
So I had to figure it out myself and create a framework and system of working out the unique wiring of each client. I made an art form of creating tailored experiences just for them and watched them unfold into layers of themselves they had previously not known existed - while also often entering into some pretty damn amazing states of consciousness myself!
This is not to say that other extraordinary pro dommes are not also creating and experiencing these things. It is just that no one was teaching it. Not like this. Not in a way that specifically focused on a break down of the key elements in each person's unique erotic wiring and using them as the personalised map to various sexual states of consciousness.
So while I am not offering a traditional traineeship, I am offering to teach the magic behind the curtain that makes sexual experiences and/or BDSM scenes have wings.
I am extremely honored to be mentoring international sex workers and pro dominants into this body of work. I feel humbled to be trusted by some truly advanced and skilled peers to share my knowledge. I also thoroughly enjoy showing newbies what I know. As I said it would have made the world of difference if I had access to this when I first started. Or even when I was much further along.
So here it is.
This is your invitation to be mentored into directly experiencing these functions of the erotic psyche for yourself.
And the skills needed to create this level of experience for others.
Begin the application process by booking a complimentary 15 min zoom chat with me.
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Artemisia de Vine
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Artemisia de Vine
Founder of The deVinery where you can explore the psychology behind great sex and how to play with it on purpose. Retired sex worker, pro domme and somatic sexologist who now writes about sex and teaches the art of Purposeful Adult Playdates in the bedroom. Exploring our turn-ons intentionally not only leads to more pleasure and better relating but is also a way to encounter all layers of ourselves. ArtemisiadeVine.com
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